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“I Had Sex With A MUCH Younger Man – Here’s Why It Was Seriously Wild”
Read More: “I Had Sex With A MUCH Younger Man – Here’s Why It Was Seriously Wild”I spent 22 years (11 of them married) with a man I believed was my soulmate. Sadly, after seven sex-free years, I realised I’d rather live without a man than experience the agony of life with an inattentive partner. The divorce was painful. I moved away from everything I’d known and, for the first time…
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7 Ways To Get Over A Guy In 7 Days — I Tried Them All After He Dumped Me
Read More: 7 Ways To Get Over A Guy In 7 Days — I Tried Them All After He Dumped MeWe know, everything just sucks. It’s hard to get perspective when you’re all pyjamaed up with your face in a bowl of tear-soaked ice cream. Here’s how one woman got over her heartbreak in record time – and you can too. No dark glasses required. Follow these seven steps and, even if you’re not totally…
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Sex In A Tent? Here’s How To Keep It Fun, Flexible And Not A Complete Disaster
Read More: Sex In A Tent? Here’s How To Keep It Fun, Flexible And Not A Complete DisasterThink sex and sleeping bags don’t mix? Think again. Here’s how to have sex while camping – and actually enjoy it. Experienced camper (kind of!) Sarah Fielding has a few survival tips for getting down in the great outdoors. I’m not one with nature. Or even two. I’m so afraid of snakes, I can’t look…
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How To Give An Erotic Massage: A Step-By-Step Guide From Sex Experts
Read More: How To Give An Erotic Massage: A Step-By-Step Guide From Sex ExpertsTwo things that feel damn good: massages and sex. Combine the two for an erotic massage? We’re sold. And we’re not the only ones – recently, more and more women have sought out the sensual services of erotic massage practitioners. Not only is it a way to experience pleasure and intimacy without having to invest time in dating,…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Vacation Sex
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Vacation SexEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is an award-winning sex and couples therapist and author of the USA Today best-selling book, Anatomy of Desire: Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. My client Cara couldn’t stop smiling as she settled into my office.…
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How To Pull Off Reverse Cowgirl Position Like A Pro, According To Sex Experts
Read More: How To Pull Off Reverse Cowgirl Position Like A Pro, According To Sex ExpertsIf you’re ready to unleash your wild wild west side in bed, there’s one sex position you need to add to your repertoire: reverse cowgirl. It’s unique, adventurous and downright hot. If you love being on top in the classic cowgirl position, riding your partner while facing away from them can be a fun way to spice things…
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A New Study Shows Sex Before Bed Is Linked With Better Sleep. Here’s Why
Read More: A New Study Shows Sex Before Bed Is Linked With Better Sleep. Here’s WhyFinding the perfect recipe for a good night’s sleep can feel pretty complicated. Experts have recommended everything from keeping your bedroom cool at night, to sticking with consistent sleep and wake times, to avoiding screens for hours before bed. But you can now add a much simpler sleep-enhancing hack to the list: Have sex. That’s the major takeaway from a new…
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27 Insanely Hot Moves That Will Change Your Sex Life Forever
Read More: 27 Insanely Hot Moves That Will Change Your Sex Life ForeverCould your sex life do with an upgrade? Well, you’ve come to the right place. Here is the longest list of kinky things to do and fun games to play so you never feel bored in the sack again. Ever. 1. Watch Porn A 2021 study found that couples who watched porn together reported a…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Starting Again — Navigating Sex and Dating After Divorce or Loss
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Starting Again — Navigating Sex and Dating After Divorce or LossEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, author of the USA Today Best-Selling book, Anatomy of Desire: Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion, and podcast host. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. Janeane, a new client, sat across from me in my therapy office, her…
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How To Make The 69 Sex Position Hot (And Not Awkward), According To Sex Experts
Read More: How To Make The 69 Sex Position Hot (And Not Awkward), According To Sex ExpertsOf all the recognisable sex positions, 69 breaches close to the top of the list – you can thank Matt from middle school giggling every time the number was said out loud in math class for that. It probably made you think it was going to be a staple in your sex life, but as an adult, you may…
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Debunked: 7 STI Myths
Read More: Debunked: 7 STI MythsMedically reviewed by Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., FACOG, NCMP April 13-19, 2025, is STI Awareness Week. Misinformation is a lot like an STI — you may pass it on to someone else and not even know it. Myths and assumptions about sexually transmitted infections (STIs) have been around forever. Before the internet, you probably heard…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Alcohol, Women and Sex
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Alcohol, Women and SexEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, author and podcast host. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. “Do you want to come up for a drink?” We all know what that means, right? Alcohol and sex have long been connected in our culture from romanticized depictions in…
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Your Sexpert-Approved Guide To Clitoral Orgasm
Read More: Your Sexpert-Approved Guide To Clitoral OrgasmOf the many types of orgasms out there, a clitoral orgasm might be the MVP. Despite the myth that clit orgasms are “a ‘lesser’ orgasm” compared to other types (like vaginal orgasms), they shouldn’t be treated as second-string, says Shamyra Howard. “There’s so much misinformation out there that makes people feel like vaginal orgasms are superior, or…
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These 5 Steamy Reads Will Make You Look Forward To Bedtime
Read More: These 5 Steamy Reads Will Make You Look Forward To BedtimeWe’ve got news for you! Per experts, reading erotica can potentially improve your sex life by stimulating your imagination, allowing you to explore new fantasies and desires, enhancing communication with your partner about what you want sexually, and potentially boosting confidence and arousal levels by providing a safe space to explore your sexuality without judgment. We’re all…
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4 Smoothie “Love Potions” That Legitimately Have An Effect On Attraction
Read More: 4 Smoothie “Love Potions” That Legitimately Have An Effect On AttractionForget chemical stimulants – these love potions are packed with all the vitamins and nutrients your body needs to naturally boost libido, enhance stamina and heighten pleasure. Let’s just say you’ll be a smooth(ie) operator after one of these! For Deeper Orgasms Try: The Red Devil Smoothie Use: 1/3 watermelon, 1/3 punnet strawberries, handful chia…
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3 Workouts That Actually Make Great Dates!
Read More: 3 Workouts That Actually Make Great Dates!Not all sweat sessions make for great dates, for the obvious reasons… but these three workouts will help you feel the burn and the love. 1. Weight Circuit Why it’s date-worthyA fun routine in which you each pick two moves – and both do all four – allows you to lift weights together, but at your…
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These 9 Oral Sex Techniques Will Enhance Intimacy – And Pleasure
Read More: These 9 Oral Sex Techniques Will Enhance Intimacy – And PleasureHear me out: Oral sex is like a trip to Chipotle. Sure, it can be tempting to opt for the same tried and true technique combo every time you eat out, just as you’d order the same taco every time you, well, eat out. And there’s nothing wrong with knowing what works for you and your partner. But just…
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Here’s How To Have A Quickie That’s Actually Satisfying – And Why You Should
Read More: Here’s How To Have A Quickie That’s Actually Satisfying – And Why You ShouldWhile slow and steady can win the race, you heard it here first: Quickies are just as satisfying as a relaxed romp – sometimes, even more so, according to sex therapists. Meet the Experts: Kimberly Thomas, LPC, CST, is a certified sex therapist at Transformation Space Therapeutic Services, LLC in Virginia. Rachel Zar, PhD, LMFT, is a certified sex…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Asexuality
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: AsexualityEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, USA Today Best-Selling author and podcast host. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. As a sex and relationship therapist, I’ve made it my mission to help people feel secure and confident in their sexuality. Most of the time, I work…
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How To Have Safe Oral Sex
Read More: How To Have Safe Oral SexSimply put, oral sex is the act of stimulating your partner’s genitals with your lips, tongue and mouth. Sometimes part of foreplay and sometimes as a complete sexual experience in itself, oral sex is not something unusual or unheard of. For a sexual act that is relatively common and has been around for so long, it is…
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There Are Tons Of Benefits To Prioritising Outercourse – Here’s How To Do It
Read More: There Are Tons Of Benefits To Prioritising Outercourse – Here’s How To Do ItTake a moment and think back to some of the best, most intimate sexual experiences you’ve ever had. Sure, they still might’ve involved some kind of vaginal or anal penetration, but chances are, they included some other activities, too: I’m talking oral sex, sensual touching, clitoral or nipple stimulation, or even some light sensory play. All of…
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5 Ways To Have Hot ‘Holiday Sex’ Without Leaving Home
Read More: 5 Ways To Have Hot ‘Holiday Sex’ Without Leaving HomeFor those long weekends or vacations when escaping to some tropical destination just ain’t gonna happen, achieve the erotic highs of away-from-home nooky with these seductive tips. Do The Prep Work Before jet-setting off on a couple’s retreat, you usually get your hair done, nails painted and legs waxed – all in the name of…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Maintaining a Strong Sexual Connection During Midlife
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Maintaining a Strong Sexual Connection During MidlifeEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, author and podcast host. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. Her book, Anatomy of Desire: Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion is available everywhere books are sold. I was recently sucked into the novel “All Fours” by Miranda…
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4 Most Common Questions Women Ask About Their Sexual Health
Read More: 4 Most Common Questions Women Ask About Their Sexual HealthWhat does your ‘Girls Night’ consist of? Pizza, wine and a few episodes of Emily In Paris? Or is it a night where you and your girls get deep into conversations about sex, toys and men? For many, it will be the first option, as the latter tends to make many feel uncomfortable. Why is…
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The Best Sex Positions Ever: The G-Whiz
Read More: The Best Sex Positions Ever: The G-WhizThe G-Whiz. One sex position with the idea sort of in the name. As you’ve probably guessed, the point of this one is to stimulate your ‘G-spot’ – an area of the vaginal wall, which, in some women – but not all – can create an extra hyped sensation of pleasure, when stimulated. Whether you do experience…
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34 Foods That Ramp Up Your Sex Drive — And They Taste Freakin’ Amazing Too
Read More: 34 Foods That Ramp Up Your Sex Drive — And They Taste Freakin’ Amazing TooSex drive foods, you say? A myth, you say? Not so fast. These 34-plus edibles are not only good for you, they’ll rev up your libido and boost blood flow to the genitals, taking sex from ordinary to extraordinary. 34 Libido-boosting foods: Spinach and other green veg Spinach is a potent source of magnesium, which…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: The Rise of Erotic Asphyxiation
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: The Rise of Erotic AsphyxiationEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, author and podcast host. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. Lately, it seems like everyone’s more comfortable talking about their sexual preferences. And with this openness — does their freak match your freak? — sexual expression has evolved, with preferences…
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How—And Why—Your Workout Routine Can Benefit Your Sex Drive
Read More: How—And Why—Your Workout Routine Can Benefit Your Sex DriveThink about the best sex you’ve ever had. Now, consider how you felt afterwards: exhilarated, calm and pleasantly tired…not unlike how you’d feel after a great workout. Well, that’s no coincidence. In fact, there’s a huge (and perhaps surprising!) link between sex and exercise. If you enjoy getting sweaty at the gym and between the sheets, you…
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Bladder Leakage During Sex
Read More: Bladder Leakage During SexWhat do the following have in common? A) Public speaking in the nude B) Finding a rattlesnake in your underwear drawer C) Being held upside down over a cauldron of lava Answer: Most women would probably say these experiences are less terrifying than telling their partner they’re having bladder leakage during sex. But bladder leakage…
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Can I Use Coconut Oil As Lube, Or Is That A Terrible Idea?
Read More: Can I Use Coconut Oil As Lube, Or Is That A Terrible Idea?Like just about anything, picking the right lubricant is a personal choice that looks different for everyone. Considering how many options there are – between water-based, silicone and oil-based products – it’s important to do your research. And by research, I mean: understanding the ingredients, consulting a doctor and then putting it to the test. But if you…
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15 Minutes With: Cindy Eckert Talks About the First FDA-Approved Pink Pill for Low Libido in Women
Read More: 15 Minutes With: Cindy Eckert Talks About the First FDA-Approved Pink Pill for Low Libido in WomenCindy Eckert is passionate about a lot of things. Near the top of her list is your sex drive. Eckert is the founder and CEO of Sprout Pharmaceuticals — the company behind the first and only FDA-approved pill for female hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), or low sex drive. Eckert made history when the drug…
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4 Intimate Sex Positions To *Really* Get Close
Read More: 4 Intimate Sex Positions To *Really* Get CloseIf you want to reignite things and introduce a bit more fire to your lovemaking, we’re here to explain the perks of slowing things down and offer four intimate sex positions to heat things up. “When you engage your body and mind in bed, you’ll feel more relaxed, connected to your partner and aroused –…
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Accessible Sex Toys for Women with Limited Mobility
Read More: Accessible Sex Toys for Women with Limited MobilityOrgasms are the gift that keeps on giving. Not only do they spark joy in IRT, orgasms can help relieve pain, reduce anxiety and strengthen your pelvic floor among other sexy health benefits. Unfortunately, the big O can be elusive for some of us. This can be especially true for women and people assigned female…
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Add ‘Prone Bone’ To Your List Of Hottest Sex Positions To Try Out Soon
Read More: Add ‘Prone Bone’ To Your List Of Hottest Sex Positions To Try Out SoonThe words ‘viral’ and ‘sex position’ might (rightly) spark fear in your mind – but we’ve come across a trending sex position that you should legitimately consider adding to your repertoire: prone bone. Searches on Google for ‘prone bone’ are on the rise and for good reason: the position is a fun twist on doggy-style and other…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Understanding Sex Addiction
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Understanding Sex AddictionEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, author and podcast host. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. When you think of sex addiction, do Hank Moody from Californication or Brenda Chenoweth from Six Feet Under come to mind? How about David Duchovny, who not only played Hank…
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The 38 Best Foreplay Ideas You Need To Try Tonight, According To Sex Experts
Read More: The 38 Best Foreplay Ideas You Need To Try Tonight, According To Sex ExpertsSex isn’t a racing track and you and your partner aren’t members of the Fast & Furious squad. So, in the bedroom, you shouldn’t go from zero to 100—or, holding hands to full-on penetration. Instead, you should always implement some foreplay ideas as a slow and steady on ramp to intimacy. While many folks tend to focus…
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Exactly How To Make A Sex Tape, From Those Who Know
Read More: Exactly How To Make A Sex Tape, From Those Who KnowYou don’t have to be Kim Kardashian to get steamy on camera. Here’s how to make sure your version is tasteful, sexy and, above all, fun… Orgasms guaranteed. You’ve never thought of yourself as an exhibitionist… Unless, of course, you’re one of the 39 percent of WH readers who confessed to having filmed their intimate…
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Masturbation Has Tons Of Surprising Health Benefits—Here Are The Biggest Ones
Read More: Masturbation Has Tons Of Surprising Health Benefits—Here Are The Biggest OnesSexually speaking, no two people are the same—everyone has different experiences, preferences and turn-ons. But there’s one activity that’s been around for millions of years and it’s still ubiquitous today: the art of masturbation. No matter your age, gender, or life experiences, solo sex can feel good. And believe it or not, it actually has a lot of…
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Your June 2024 Sex Horoscope Is Here And It’s Time To Add A Date Night To Your Calendar
Read More: Your June 2024 Sex Horoscope Is Here And It’s Time To Add A Date Night To Your CalendarIf you hope to make 2024 a year filled with love and joy, you’re in luck. The zodiac is feeling romantic this June, with plenty of opportunities for lighting new romantic sparks and rekindling old ones, says Donna Page, an Atlanta-based astrologer with a graduate degree in counselling psychology. “The energy of the month is…
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This Is EXACTLY What Men Think… During Sex
Read More: This Is EXACTLY What Men Think… During SexEver wondered what goes through his mind during sex? We got the answers from local men and asked the Men’s Health team for advice on what you can do to make it better for your guy. On… Sex in The Shower What he’s thinking: “This is… Uhm, how do you… This is harder than it…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: The Female Orgasm Is Elusive — But Not Unattainable
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: The Female Orgasm Is Elusive — But Not UnattainableEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, author and podcast host. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. The female orgasm has long been a topic of intrigue and — unfortunately — confusion. Despite being a pleasurable experience, many women or people with female genitals find it elusive,…
