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11 Contraceptives You Should Think About Trying – Other Than The Pill
Read More: 11 Contraceptives You Should Think About Trying – Other Than The PillPicking the right birth control is as important as picking the right partner – and almost as tricky. And for South African women, the stakes are not low: a national antenatal survey of nearly 35,000 pregnant women found that 51.6% of pregnancies in South Africa are unintended. That’s a huge number, and one that could…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Reclaiming Sexual Intimacy After Prostate Cancer
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: Reclaiming Sexual Intimacy After Prostate CancerEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, best-selling author and keynote speaker. You can also find her here, sharing her latest thoughts about sex. When your partner is faced with prostate cancer, the conversation understandably centers on survival, but often, getting to the other side is when another challenge begins — reclaiming sexual intimacy. Prostate…
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Can A R615 Rabbit Vibrator Really Deliver A Blended Orgasm? We Tested It Ourselves
Read More: Can A R615 Rabbit Vibrator Really Deliver A Blended Orgasm? We Tested It OurselvesIf you’re looking for a budget rabbit vibrator in South Africa, the options usually lean one of two ways: suspiciously cheap or painfully basic. Enter the Rocks Off Glo Girl Rabbit Vibrator: a dual-motor toy promising simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation for just R615. With my partner out for the evening, I decided to take…
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Quizzes, Sex, Sex and relationships, Sexually transmitted diseases, Sexually transmitted infections, Stds, Sti
True or False: Sexually Transmitted Infections
Read More: True or False: Sexually Transmitted InfectionsSexually transmitted infections (STIs) are so cringe. Why does something so awesome like sex have to be so … un-sexy? We know no one wants to think about STIs, but the reality is that they’ve been around forever and can happen to anyone. In fact, about 1 in 5 people in the U.S. have an…
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Your Biggest Sex Struggle, According To Your Star Sign
Read More: Your Biggest Sex Struggle, According To Your Star SignIn the words of Paris Hilton, the stars are blind. But that doesn’t mean they can’t eff with your sex life. Though we’re all sexual snowflakes, unique in our own way, the characteristics of our star signs can interfere with a spectacular sack sesh, says astrologer Annabel Gat. Find out what your zodiac sign’s biggest…
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Relationship Experts Say ‘Arousal Anchors’ Are The Secret To Better Sex
Read More: Relationship Experts Say ‘Arousal Anchors’ Are The Secret To Better SexOnce upon a time, I (naively) believed nothing could kill my libido. But now that I’m 30 and married, my sex drive needs a jump-start before I can get in the mood. The problem? I don’t have time to perform a lengthy pre-sex ritual. What I really need is what sexologist and ethical porn director Angie Rowntree calls an “arousal…
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Scissoring Is The Sex Position That Can Secretly Benefit Every Couple. Here’s How To Try It
Read More: Scissoring Is The Sex Position That Can Secretly Benefit Every Couple. Here’s How To Try ItOf all the sex positions and techniques out there, scissoring might be one of the most misunderstood. The sex position-slash-method is often thought of as the default way two people with vulvas have sex, but it’s definitely not the only way they can – nor is it an off-limits move for other couples. Regardless of your and your partner’s anatomy, “scissoring allows for…
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5 Easy Exercises That’ll Prime Your Body For MUCH Better Orgasms
Read More: 5 Easy Exercises That’ll Prime Your Body For MUCH Better OrgasmsNeed a boost in the bedroom? Exercising might be the answer – it’s not only good for shaping up or slimming down, but it can also add spice to your sex life! Sexual wellness experts often point out that orgasms involve a combination of muscle contractions, blood flow, nerve stimulation and mental relaxation. These exercises…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: How Much Sex Should You Be Having?
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: How Much Sex Should You Be Having?Emily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, best-selling author and keynote speaker. You can also find her here, sharing her latest thoughts about sex. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re having “enough” sex, you’re not alone. As a couples and sex therapist, one of the most common questions I hear is: How often should we…
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If You Love Oral, You Need To Add ‘The French Lover’ To Your Cart Right Now
Read More: If You Love Oral, You Need To Add ‘The French Lover’ To Your Cart Right NowReal talk: finding a tongue vibrator sex toy that actually feels like a real tongue is like searching for a mythical artifact in an Indiana Jones movie. It’s a road usually fraught with aggressive suction traps and hard plastic let-downs. But fear not, fellow intimacy explorers and pleasure seekers – The French Lover by Smile…
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Cheating, Sex And Ex Dreams: What Those Spicy Dreams Are Actually Trying To Tell You
Read More: Cheating, Sex And Ex Dreams: What Those Spicy Dreams Are Actually Trying To Tell YouYou wake up in a sweat, heart racing, suddenly forced to confront the fact that your subconscious just cast your ex-boyfriend in a very explicit cameo role in your dream. Or maybe your brain decided to serve you a full-blown cheating scandal involving your current partner and your co-worker. As unsettling (or occasionally entertaining) as…
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Syntribation Is The Hands-Free Masturbation Technique You Need To Try Tonight
Read More: Syntribation Is The Hands-Free Masturbation Technique You Need To Try TonightEven though it’s easier than ever to shop for sex toys, it’s also totally normal if you feel overwhelmed with options, don’t have the budget to splurge on the latest vibrator, or simply feel uncomfortable using a toy, whether alone or with a partner. But don’t worry, because you already have access to the ultimate sex toy: your…
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4 Kinda Kinky Oral Sex Positions Every Adventurous Girl Should Try
Read More: 4 Kinda Kinky Oral Sex Positions Every Adventurous Girl Should TryYou probably have a few favourite sex positions, but what about foreplay? If your pre-sex routine is a bit dull – it’s time to get creative with your mouth… 1. Use The Edge Of The Bed This little tweak to traditional on-your-back oral gives you even more control. Lie down at the edge of the…
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I Wore A Remote-Control Vibrating Thong & My Partner Literally Forgot How To Act
Read More: I Wore A Remote-Control Vibrating Thong & My Partner Literally Forgot How To ActThere are couples’ sex toys, and then there are toys that completely rev up your relationship on a random Tuesday night. Enter: this wearable, remote-control vibe. It promises hands-free bliss for you, a rush of absolute power for your partner and a level of anticipation that’ll make your standard Netflix and chill feel like a…
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4 Cosy Winter Sex Positions To Warm Up Your Nights
Read More: 4 Cosy Winter Sex Positions To Warm Up Your NightsWith the winter chill officially here, our current vibe is strictly indoor-only. But while the drop in temperature is the perfect excuse to cancel plans, hibernate in your favourite sweats and lean into maximum comfort, your sex life doesn’t have to go into hibernation too. Hey, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with having a routine that…
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15 Anal Sex Positions That Make Butt Play Way Hotter
Read More: 15 Anal Sex Positions That Make Butt Play Way HotterWhen it’s time to bump and grind, sometimes, you just want to hit it from behind. Yup, we’re talking about anal sex. Once a taboo sexual act, it’s become more and more common in the last decade. Why? Well, for starters, it’s enjoyable for givers and receivers. Physically, anal sex provides a different kind of fullness, while emotionally, it…
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8 Crazy-Hot Positions That Will Spice Up Oral Sex
Read More: 8 Crazy-Hot Positions That Will Spice Up Oral SexYou probably have a ton of favourite positions when it comes to sex, but what about foreplay? If your pre-sex routine is feeling, well, routine, it’s time to get creative with your mouth moves. Here are eight moves to spice it up… One Up This little tweak to traditional on-your-back oral gives you even more…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: How Is AI Affecting Sex and Relationships?
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: How Is AI Affecting Sex and Relationships?Emily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, best-selling author and keynote speaker. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. A few months ago, Rachel, a client in her late 40s sat across from me and said something that caught me off guard. “I think Jake is having an…
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The Sex Talk Midlife Couples Need To Have Right Now
Read More: The Sex Talk Midlife Couples Need To Have Right NowOnce upon a time, sex was (relatively) simple. You waited for the right moment, made your move and as they say, one thing led to another… But once you reach midlife, more often than not, one thing leads to… nothing. By your 40s, your life is full with work duties, family responsibilities and other everyday expectations…
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This Slender & Powerful Sex Toy Will Bend Over Backwards To Get You Off – Literally
Read More: This Slender & Powerful Sex Toy Will Bend Over Backwards To Get You Off – LiterallyEvery now and again a new sex toy comes along that changes the way you think about pleasure. The Svakom Cici 2 is the evolution of that exact thought. If I ask you to take a moment to picture a vibrator, I’m almost certain that you’re imagining something that could easily be described as robust.…
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¿Qué efectos tiene el lupus en la salud sexual y reproductiva?
Read More: ¿Qué efectos tiene el lupus en la salud sexual y reproductiva?English Hay varios tipos de lupus, pero las personas frecuentemente usan la palabra “lupus” para referirse al lupus eritematoso sistémico (LES), el tipo más común de ese trastorno. Todos los tipos de lupus son trastornos autoinmunitarios que hacen que el sistema inmunitario de tu cuerpo ataque órganos y tejidos. A pesar de que el lupus…
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Lupus and Reproductive Health: What You Need to Know
Read More: Lupus and Reproductive Health: What You Need to KnowThere are several types of lupus, but people often use the word “lupus” to mean systemic lupus erythematosus (SLE), the most common form of the disease. All types of lupus are autoimmune conditions that cause your body’s immune system to attack organs and tissues. Despite the fact that lupus overwhelmingly affects women in their reproductive…
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This Discreet Vibrator Is So Quiet, You Could Use It Anywhere!
Read More: This Discreet Vibrator Is So Quiet, You Could Use It Anywhere!Whether you’re living in a shared house, travelling with friends, or simply navigating a busy household, finding a moment of absolute privacy can be a challenge. When your environment isn’t conducive to loud, bulky toys, discretion becomes the most important feature of your pleasure routine. Fortunately, luxury intimate brand LELO has refined its iconic “pebble”…
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9 Steamy New Sex Positions To Try This Valentine’s Day
Read More: 9 Steamy New Sex Positions To Try This Valentine’s DayWhile the haters might say that Valentine’s Day is nothing more than a Hallmark conspiracy, we still think there’s plenty to celebrate, like sex. Even if you aren’t into roses and candy, orgasms are the one gift that keep on giving. Ta-da! Whether you’re seeing someone special or just have a FWB on speed-dial, the…
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13 Best Masturbation Techniques For Women, According To Sex Experts
Read More: 13 Best Masturbation Techniques For Women, According To Sex ExpertsNo matter whether you incorporate a sex toy, use your hands, or get a little creative with your shower head, masturbation isn’t just a fun way to spend “me time.” It’s also good for your health – and the health of your relationship(s). “Masturbation releases stress and anxiety,” says Leah Millheiser. “We know that you get total-body…
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Happy Rabbit Thrusting Vibrator Review: What It’s Like To Use This Dual-Stim Toy
Read More: Happy Rabbit Thrusting Vibrator Review: What It’s Like To Use This Dual-Stim ToySo. Rabbit vibrators. They’re named that because of the two little “ears” that are designed to stimulate your clitoris, while the main shaft targets your G-spot to provide dual stimulation. Simple enough. And more than effective enough at producing orgasms. This blended pleasure provider combines internal and external sensations at the same time. What more…
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4 Crazy (But Totally Doable) Sex Positions To Keep Things Interesting
Read More: 4 Crazy (But Totally Doable) Sex Positions To Keep Things InterestingDid you know that novelty ignites passion by increasing your brain’s levels of dopamine, a neurotransmitter linked to romance and sex drive? So says biological anthropologist Dr Helen Fisher. Whether you’re both working from home and a little bored of each other or you’re just looking to add some extra zing, these crazy sex positions…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: The Sex Recession
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: The Sex RecessionEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, best-selling author and speaker. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. I had spent about four months working with Lauren and Jason, a couple in their mid 50’s, on the sexual decline they’d suffered over the last decade of their relationship.…
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5 Amazing Things We Learned About Women’s Health This Year
Read More: 5 Amazing Things We Learned About Women’s Health This YearIt’s the end of the year, peeps — and what a year it was. We’re locking in and bringing good energy into the new year, so now is a perfect time to reflect back on some of the HealthyWomen stories and important things we learned about women’s health in 2025 that made us high-five the…
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Get the FYI on STIs
Read More: Get the FYI on STIs+ Infographic text Everyone who is sexually active is at risk for sexually transmitted infections (STIs). And knowing you have an STI can help you get timely treatment to protect you and your partner(s). But too many women aren’t getting tested because they think they’re not at risk. Our survey said: Only about 1 in…
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101 Sex Tips That Will Have You Turned On For Days
Read More: 101 Sex Tips That Will Have You Turned On For DaysYou’ve mastered the basics of sex. You know where your G-spot is, your favourite buzzy friend is at the ready in your bedside drawer and you can debate with your girlfriends about the advantages of reverse cowgirl versus missionary. Now it’s time to kick things up a notch: we’ve got sex tips, toys, tricks and…
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What Is A Spit Kink? Sex Experts Explain The Fluid Sharing Practice That’s All Over Pop Culture
Read More: What Is A Spit Kink? Sex Experts Explain The Fluid Sharing Practice That’s All Over Pop CultureSpit has moved from the horny to the normy zeitgeist faster than you can say “spit in my mouth.” Need proof? Think of the speed with which Sinners’ infamous spit scene became both meme and masturbation fodder, the virality of the Hawk Tuah Girl, or how the droplet emoji has become a near-universal stand-in for saliva. Indeed, people are talking about…
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Womanizer Duo Bordeaux Review: “Every Woman Should Own This Toy”
Read More: Womanizer Duo Bordeaux Review: “Every Woman Should Own This Toy”The best part of experimenting with sex toys? When you reach a climax, right? Well, get this… The Womanizer Duo Bordeaux might just give you the most explosive orgasm in 30 seconds. True story! If you’re a sex toy novice, this cute gadget is a good (and very, very pleasurable) investment. In fact, we think every…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: How to Share a Sexual Fantasy with Your Partner
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: How to Share a Sexual Fantasy with Your PartnerEmily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, author and podcast host. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. When Camilla first brought up the topic of sexual fantasies in therapy, she laughed nervously. “I have this one recurring fantasy,” she said, “but I could never tell my husband.…
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This R1 249 Rabbit Vibrator Feels Way More Luxe Than Its Price Tag
Read More: This R1 249 Rabbit Vibrator Feels Way More Luxe Than Its Price TagWe know, sex toys are cool, but unfortunately, they can also be pretty expensive. Like, half your monthly rent expensive, which makes it pretty difficult to build a good collection of toys that will suit your every mood. Luckily, at a price tag of R1 249, the Swan Wonderlust Harmony Rabbit Vibrator might be one…
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15 Minutes With: Sabrina Johnson Talks Treatment for Female Sexual Arousal Disorder
Read More: 15 Minutes With: Sabrina Johnson Talks Treatment for Female Sexual Arousal DisorderOctober is Menopause Awareness Month. You’ve probably heard of a little blue pill called Viagra that’s prescribed for men with erectile dysfunction. But can you name a treatment for sexual arousal disorder that’s made for women? No? Despite the fact that as many as half of all women worldwide experience female sexual dysfunction, we rarely…
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Everything You’ve Ever Wanted To Know About Clitoral Stimulation
Read More: Everything You’ve Ever Wanted To Know About Clitoral StimulationYou know how in A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Shakespeare famously wrote, “And though she be but little, she is fierce”? Yeah, that basically sums up your clit. Just the glans of the clitoris – which is often only about two centimetres wide – has over 8 000 nerve endings, more than any other part of the vulva. In…
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9 Best Ethical Porn Sites You Can Feel Good About Watching
Read More: 9 Best Ethical Porn Sites You Can Feel Good About WatchingIf you’re a sexual human being, chances are you’ve taken a peek at some adult content at least once (or, uh, a few times) in your life. Whether for inspiration, techniques, or simply to get off, when the urge to put on a NSFW video strikes, it’s a natural instinct to hit up Google for…
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Is There Sex After Cervical Cancer?
Read More: Is There Sex After Cervical Cancer?Joslyn Paguio was diagnosed with HPV, the virus that can cause cervical cancer, in the middle of her freshman year of college. She was given no further information by her school medical clinic, but she did her own research and found an OB-GYN, who discovered that Paguio’s HPV strain was high-risk for becoming cancer and…
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Good Sex with Emily Jamea: When Is Pornography a Problem?
Read More: Good Sex with Emily Jamea: When Is Pornography a Problem?Emily Jamea, Ph.D., is a sex therapist, author and podcast host. You can find her here each month to share her latest thoughts about sex. September is Sexual Health Awareness Month. I sat across from Jeremy and his wife, Sonia, in their first session with me. Sonia was fuming. Jeremy fidgeted, eyes fixed on the…
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3 Girl-On-Top Sex Positions That Will Let You Control All The Action
Read More: 3 Girl-On-Top Sex Positions That Will Let You Control All The ActionThere are many perks to being on top when you’re having sex, but the most important one is that you can control your own pleasure, moving in a rhythm and at a speed that pushes all the right buttons for you. Depending on the sex position, you’re also in control of the depth at which…
